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1. CORRESPOND WITH NIKA: YOUR KINKY PEN PAL CONFIDANT! - Respectful gentlemen only! If you are simply seeking a real Domme with whom to correspond on a personal level, about anything and everything, choose this option. Don't expect cyber-sex. That's not what this is about. This is about having a friend in the BDSM community with whom you can share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences - without judgment. This correspondence is far more personal than the Ask Nika option below. Nika will share her personal lifestyle experiences with you while you will be expected to entertain her with the same! Receive discounts when buying in bulk!
2. ASK NIKA: YOUR PERSONAL BDSM DATING COACH! - Send Nika a (respectful!) email if you need specific advice about anything (or anyone) related to your online dating or BDSM lifestyle activities. She will respond genuinely, in detail, and with compassion...but she will be honest. Warning: If you forget your manners, she will stop responding and you will not receive a refund. Nika practices tough love so keep that in mind when writing to her. COST: $7.00 per email or $3.00 per text with a minimum of five messages. Nika will usually respond same-day, after payment is received. Receive discounts when buying in bulk!
3. GET KINKY WITH NIKA AND TRAIN TO BE A BETTER SUBMISSIVE! Share your deepest, darkest fantasies with Nika and she will put you to work, performing tasks that will please her, and that will train you to be a better submissive. You will be required to send Nika photos of your completed tasks and you will be required to be nude in some of them. No cyber-sex. You must be a gentleman. All submissive gentlemen are well-trained and it's time for YOUR training to begin! Nika practices tough love so keep that in mind before signing up for this service. Warning: If you forget your manners, she will stop responding and you will not receive a refund. COST: $7.00 per email or $3.00 per text with a minimum of five messages. Nika usually responds same-day. Receive discounts when buying in bulk. Keyholding service available as well.
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4. YOUR ONLINE PROFILE - Nika has been a professional writer and editor of both kinky and vanilla material for over 20 years. She is also the author of more than 25 fiction and non-fiction books. Nika will critique, edit, rewrite, or create (from scratch) an attractive and professional, yet entertaining profile for you to use on Fetlife.com and/or other social media and dating websites.
PROFILE CRITIQUE: Nika will read your existing profile, and will send you a general critique on what Dominant women will like about it, and what needs work. NOTE: If your profile is more than 400 words, that's way too long! You definitely need Nika's editing services below.
PROFILE EDITING: Nika will edit your existing profile for misspelled words and grammatical errors.
PROFILE REWRITE: Nika will rewrite your existing profile, making it more professional, more engaging and entertaining, and more far more likely to attract the type of Domme you are seeking.
ORIGINAL PROFILE CREATION: Nika will send you a personal questionnaire, and will use your detailed answers, and direct correspondence with you, to create an original, eye-catching, and professional, yet entertaining profile.
5. YOUR PHOTOS - You're not one of those guys with a great six-pack photo, but a toilet in the background are you? Say it isn't so! Did you have a friend do a great photo shoot, but only discovered an ugly blemish after the fact? Have no fear! Nika has a Photoshop expert on hand to assist you! No judgment. Just fast Photoshopping with a smile!
PHOTO CRITIQUE: Nika will critique your photos, telling you what is good about each one, what's definitely not good, and how you can improve each one. If your photo is great, she'll tell you. If it's not, expect her to be brutally honest. NOTE: More than 15 photos on your online profile are TOO MANY!
PHOTO TOUCH-UP USING PHOTOSHOP: Nika's Photoshop expert will provide minor touch-up of profile pictures (blemish removal, cropping, removing other people and specific objects, etc.). Please note: The Photoshop Expert will NOT make your penis or breasts look larger, nor make you thinner or more muscular. We provide an ethical service and misrepresenting yourself to Dommes will ultimately lead to failure.
6. CRITIQUE, EDITING, AND GHOSTWRITING CORRESPONDENCE SERVICES: PERSONAL MESSAGES - Let Nika make your first impression one that every Domme will remember!
CRITIQUE: Nika will critique the initial message you intend to send to someone online (your pitch!), or your responses to messages received from a Domme. She will tell you what's good, and what needs work, increasing your chances of a positive response.
EDITING - Nika will review the initial message you intend to send to a Domme online (your pitch!), and will edit that message for typos and grammatical errors, increasing your chances of a positive response.
GHOSTWRITING: Nika will review the profile of a Domme you are interested in, and will craft an original introduction for you to send, based on their profile information, likes, dislikes, etc., thus greatly increasing your chances of receiving a positive response, which can lead to ongoing dialogue. You can also order this service if you need Nika to create original responses to correspondence you receive from Dommes.
7. CRITIQUE, EDITING, AND GHOSTWRITING SERVICES: YOUR ONLINE POSTS TO DISCUSSION LISTS AND FORUMS - Participating on discussion lists and online forums creates visibility for you. Thoughtful, original posts, and responses to posts made by others, can lead to Dommes visiting your profile!
CRITIQUE: Nika will critique an original post you intend to submit to a forum or discussion list online, telling you what is good, and what needs work.
EDITING - Nika will review your pre-written post, and will edit that message for typos and grammatical errors.
GHOSTWRITING: Nika will research a specific forum or group online, and will craft an original post on a topic of your choosing.